Some are song lyrics, some are quotes...
"I'm going to corrupt him. In a good way. This time."
"I intend to fuck you...like your daddy...owes me money."
"God, why do I do this? Well...maybe it'll be the worst, most awkward date ever, and at least I'll have a good story." (Side note: after I said this, he frantically called and told me, a total stranger, that he must postpone our date an hour because he HAS to get this drug deal done first...and I was so shocked and awed that I SAID OKAY. omg)
"Oh my! Oops, there goes my skirt down to my feet."
Friday, February 3, 2012
Thursday, February 2, 2012
3. Bringing the Playa Home
Final installment of my Burning Man Rites of Passage series
Recently I explained to someone that in the last year, "I had a near-death experience in a car wreck and went to Burning Man, both equally life-changing." And it's true. Burning Man is a transformational journey with long-lasting effects. I see the world differently now.
While I was on the playa, I was constantly reminded of how much I've missed brilliant desert sunrises and sunsets. That's the one thing I long for (besides family and friends, of course) when I think of growing up in Arizona. Yet when I returned to San Diego, it was as if I brought the sunset home with me. The night I got back, I saw the most spectacular sunset I've ever seen in the decade I've lived here. The whole sky blazing with oranges and purples and pinks and greens, and framed by palm trees like the picturesque scenes you see on post cards. I felt like it was meant for me to see.
Though I've always been a freak about recycling and trash, and always carry a reusable travel mug, I am even more aware of waste now. When I was lugging my BPA-free bottle all over Vegas, I must've explained 6 times to various people that it's just water, I'm from California, we're environmentalists...I also try to nix straws and lids when possible. Recently, at a club, I felt huge guilt when I realized that all night I'd been drinking soda cans poured into plastic cups with straws. I'll walk far to throw trash away and I no longer have any qualms about scolding friends for littering.
I've also had a stronger sense of community after getting back. There was a 12-hour power outage during which I ended up at Mission Beach. It felt shady, with all these characters milling about, bored and hungry and unable to order food at the restaurants. Kids looted the 711 on Florida St, for no reason other than to be assholes. Just when I was thinking how much people suck, I got home, where everyone was hanging out in the courtyard. I met more neighbors during the blackout than I have in 5+ yrs living in this building. They came out with cigs, candles, fruit and other perishables, and stories about the Navy and growing up on farms. I learned that the newlyweds I share a wall with have adorable matching names. Having always lived in a big city, it's not often that I feel a sense of community, especially not one so similar to the atmosphere in BRC.
But perhaps the hugest change has been in the people I meet and surround myself with. I recognize burners by their animal hoodies and tails and feathers, and it's like we're instant friends. I find myself purposely mentioning Burning Man to new people to see who's heard of it, what their impressions are, and whether they "get" it. If not, they lose lots of brownie points. Not that all of my friends have to go or understand my reasons for it, but they have to be open-minded and accepting of me as an extremely eclectic, creative, curious, expressive being...all the qualities Burning Man celebrates, and the qualities I hope to foster in the people around me.
Recently I explained to someone that in the last year, "I had a near-death experience in a car wreck and went to Burning Man, both equally life-changing." And it's true. Burning Man is a transformational journey with long-lasting effects. I see the world differently now.
While I was on the playa, I was constantly reminded of how much I've missed brilliant desert sunrises and sunsets. That's the one thing I long for (besides family and friends, of course) when I think of growing up in Arizona. Yet when I returned to San Diego, it was as if I brought the sunset home with me. The night I got back, I saw the most spectacular sunset I've ever seen in the decade I've lived here. The whole sky blazing with oranges and purples and pinks and greens, and framed by palm trees like the picturesque scenes you see on post cards. I felt like it was meant for me to see.
Though I've always been a freak about recycling and trash, and always carry a reusable travel mug, I am even more aware of waste now. When I was lugging my BPA-free bottle all over Vegas, I must've explained 6 times to various people that it's just water, I'm from California, we're environmentalists...I also try to nix straws and lids when possible. Recently, at a club, I felt huge guilt when I realized that all night I'd been drinking soda cans poured into plastic cups with straws. I'll walk far to throw trash away and I no longer have any qualms about scolding friends for littering.
I've also had a stronger sense of community after getting back. There was a 12-hour power outage during which I ended up at Mission Beach. It felt shady, with all these characters milling about, bored and hungry and unable to order food at the restaurants. Kids looted the 711 on Florida St, for no reason other than to be assholes. Just when I was thinking how much people suck, I got home, where everyone was hanging out in the courtyard. I met more neighbors during the blackout than I have in 5+ yrs living in this building. They came out with cigs, candles, fruit and other perishables, and stories about the Navy and growing up on farms. I learned that the newlyweds I share a wall with have adorable matching names. Having always lived in a big city, it's not often that I feel a sense of community, especially not one so similar to the atmosphere in BRC.
But perhaps the hugest change has been in the people I meet and surround myself with. I recognize burners by their animal hoodies and tails and feathers, and it's like we're instant friends. I find myself purposely mentioning Burning Man to new people to see who's heard of it, what their impressions are, and whether they "get" it. If not, they lose lots of brownie points. Not that all of my friends have to go or understand my reasons for it, but they have to be open-minded and accepting of me as an extremely eclectic, creative, curious, expressive being...all the qualities Burning Man celebrates, and the qualities I hope to foster in the people around me.
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
Love lessons from the cat
Just realized that when my cat is happily purring and kneading something soft on the bed and I pat my lap to get him to come over, that's no different (and no less of an annoyance) than when I'm having an awesome time catching up with the girls and a random guy interrupts our conversation and expects us to be interested in him. Or like when I'm having a blast traveling and going to concerts and interacting with lots of hot poly lovers and someone comes along with a ball and chain wanting me to be all excited about our future 2.5 kids and white picket fence.
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
Why Occupy Wall Street?
Maybe you're wondering why I've become such a vocal proponent of The Occupation. I ask myself that sometimes, too. I've always had a tendency to take up causes and run with them, from Meals on Wheels to the Drug War, so often that I profess I DON'T NEED ANY MORE CAUSES! But this one is especially important.
It started last week when someone forwarded me a video of NYPD brutalizing Wall Street demonstrators. Several things shocked me about it. For one, the caption read, "Watch this video before youtube takes it down again." Why would it be removed? The uploader claimed that news of the protests is being suppressed. Sounded like a baseless conspiracy theory to me. But as I watched, a respected journalist confirmed that there seems to be a media blackout. Not only is no major U.S. news outlet reporting on it, but some email servers and websites have blocked messages and traffic related to it. All video is coming from amateurs and independent journalists on the ground.
It was the video footage in this report that was most disturbing. I watched in horror as young protesters already contained behind police netting, not bothering anybody, got pepper sprayed point-blank by high-ranking NYPD official Anthony Bologna. He ran off in hopes that no one saw him, but the camera caught it. It also caught police attacking people, dragging them across pavement by their clothes, swarming them, standing on their necks, and bruising their wrists with zip tie cuffs. What was their "crime"? Videotaping the police and dissenting when others were arrested.
Why hadn't I heard about these events when I am on CNN and other news sites literally all day every day? I keep up on the news, people, and there was none to be found here. That's when I turned to social networking to keep updated. (Hey, it worked for Egypt.)
It was through those sources that on Saturday, I started watching a livefeed of protesters on the Brooklyn Bridge and police occasionally struggling with them. This is a nonviolent movement that aims to respect laws, so I couldn't understand why they'd block traffic on a city bridge where they surely weren't allowed. That's when I heard them chanting, "Let us go, let us go!" I saw that they were penned in by a slew of cops and barricades, all the way around. One by one, police randomly picked people, dragged them out of the crowd, and arrested them, sometimes violently. A teenaged girl with braces, old people, young people, union workers, businesspeople, hippies, over 700 citizens--every one of them taken into custody. All for exercising their 1st amendment rights to gather peaceably and express themselves. My hand flew up to my mouth in terror as tensions mounted and police got violent. At times it seemed as though protesters were going to defend their peers from being mistreated at the risk of...well, having all of NYPD draw weapons and seriously injure everyone.
Now, I wasn't around during the equal rights movement of the '60s and '70s, when citizens were beaten and killed by authorities who were supposedly charged with protecting them. But I've seen clips, and this is the closest thing to it I've ever witnessed. NYPD consistently uses unnecessary force with impunity. In the case of the demonstrators who got pepper sprayed, officials have closed the investigation, saying the cop used normal crowd control measures. What? I couldn't help but think, Is this the start of a revolution? Another thought was, Thank god this is being taped and can prove the protesters are being peaceful and the police are not. But the fact that it was live also caused something interesting to happen...
As I sat in front of the computer bawling, unable to look away, I was bombarded with livechat alongside the video. In less than an hour, the number of viewers soared from 9,000 to 20,000. That's 20,000 people from around the world, all watching NYPD behave badly. And these people got PISSED and MOTIVATED. We started sharing links and phone numbers for NYPD, Internal Affairs, Mayor Bloomberg's office. Hundreds, maybe thousands, of us called and left messages and complaints and requests for investigation. We blew up CNN's facebook page asking why the Breaking News was a story about a plane crash in a distant country with no injuries (no joke) with zero mention of the Brooklyn Bridge arrests taking place. People sitting at home who'd otherwise been complacent were forced to confront the truth and take action. And you know what? CNN and Fox have started reporting! I certainly don't expect their coverage to be fair or balanced, but at least we demanded attention for an issue they'd ignored for 3 weeks.
So, why were they demonstrating on the bridge, anyway? Protesters say NYPD split up their march and led half of them onto the bridge. Then, the officers barricaded them, set up police netting, and arrested them for being on the bridge. There is no way I can forget the injustices I witnessed this weekend, nor do I ever want to. That solidified it for me. For the next few weeks, I live, eat, breathe Occupy San Diego, whatever I have to offer, to donate, to do, I will. And I hope one day I can tell my nieces and nephews about how I was an active participant in the reorganization of our country's financial system, how I fought to eradicate corporate greed, how I stood up for my fellow citizens whose civil liberties were being violated, all because, well, it was the right thing to do.
It started last week when someone forwarded me a video of NYPD brutalizing Wall Street demonstrators. Several things shocked me about it. For one, the caption read, "Watch this video before youtube takes it down again." Why would it be removed? The uploader claimed that news of the protests is being suppressed. Sounded like a baseless conspiracy theory to me. But as I watched, a respected journalist confirmed that there seems to be a media blackout. Not only is no major U.S. news outlet reporting on it, but some email servers and websites have blocked messages and traffic related to it. All video is coming from amateurs and independent journalists on the ground.
It was the video footage in this report that was most disturbing. I watched in horror as young protesters already contained behind police netting, not bothering anybody, got pepper sprayed point-blank by high-ranking NYPD official Anthony Bologna. He ran off in hopes that no one saw him, but the camera caught it. It also caught police attacking people, dragging them across pavement by their clothes, swarming them, standing on their necks, and bruising their wrists with zip tie cuffs. What was their "crime"? Videotaping the police and dissenting when others were arrested.
Why hadn't I heard about these events when I am on CNN and other news sites literally all day every day? I keep up on the news, people, and there was none to be found here. That's when I turned to social networking to keep updated. (Hey, it worked for Egypt.)
It was through those sources that on Saturday, I started watching a livefeed of protesters on the Brooklyn Bridge and police occasionally struggling with them. This is a nonviolent movement that aims to respect laws, so I couldn't understand why they'd block traffic on a city bridge where they surely weren't allowed. That's when I heard them chanting, "Let us go, let us go!" I saw that they were penned in by a slew of cops and barricades, all the way around. One by one, police randomly picked people, dragged them out of the crowd, and arrested them, sometimes violently. A teenaged girl with braces, old people, young people, union workers, businesspeople, hippies, over 700 citizens--every one of them taken into custody. All for exercising their 1st amendment rights to gather peaceably and express themselves. My hand flew up to my mouth in terror as tensions mounted and police got violent. At times it seemed as though protesters were going to defend their peers from being mistreated at the risk of...well, having all of NYPD draw weapons and seriously injure everyone.
Now, I wasn't around during the equal rights movement of the '60s and '70s, when citizens were beaten and killed by authorities who were supposedly charged with protecting them. But I've seen clips, and this is the closest thing to it I've ever witnessed. NYPD consistently uses unnecessary force with impunity. In the case of the demonstrators who got pepper sprayed, officials have closed the investigation, saying the cop used normal crowd control measures. What? I couldn't help but think, Is this the start of a revolution? Another thought was, Thank god this is being taped and can prove the protesters are being peaceful and the police are not. But the fact that it was live also caused something interesting to happen...
As I sat in front of the computer bawling, unable to look away, I was bombarded with livechat alongside the video. In less than an hour, the number of viewers soared from 9,000 to 20,000. That's 20,000 people from around the world, all watching NYPD behave badly. And these people got PISSED and MOTIVATED. We started sharing links and phone numbers for NYPD, Internal Affairs, Mayor Bloomberg's office. Hundreds, maybe thousands, of us called and left messages and complaints and requests for investigation. We blew up CNN's facebook page asking why the Breaking News was a story about a plane crash in a distant country with no injuries (no joke) with zero mention of the Brooklyn Bridge arrests taking place. People sitting at home who'd otherwise been complacent were forced to confront the truth and take action. And you know what? CNN and Fox have started reporting! I certainly don't expect their coverage to be fair or balanced, but at least we demanded attention for an issue they'd ignored for 3 weeks.
So, why were they demonstrating on the bridge, anyway? Protesters say NYPD split up their march and led half of them onto the bridge. Then, the officers barricaded them, set up police netting, and arrested them for being on the bridge. There is no way I can forget the injustices I witnessed this weekend, nor do I ever want to. That solidified it for me. For the next few weeks, I live, eat, breathe Occupy San Diego, whatever I have to offer, to donate, to do, I will. And I hope one day I can tell my nieces and nephews about how I was an active participant in the reorganization of our country's financial system, how I fought to eradicate corporate greed, how I stood up for my fellow citizens whose civil liberties were being violated, all because, well, it was the right thing to do.
What YOU Can Do to End Corporate Greed and Congressional Waste
By now you've probably heard about Occupy Wall Street, a nonviolent
demonstration that started in NY 3 weeks ago and is spreading to cities
across the world. Unfortunately, NYPD has been roughing up and arresting peaceful protesters, including over 700 this weekend. Here's what you can do to help.
1. Educate yourself. There's been a media blackout in the U.S. and only independent/foreign journalists have been covering this. Read articles in UK or Canadian publications and watch videos on youtube. The official declaration of the movement:
http://nycga.cc/2011/09/30/declaration-of-the-occupation-of-new-york-city/
disturbing report with footage--links aren't working so copy and paste URL into your browser:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v5zmzV5IxpQ
watch the protest live--copy and paste URL:
http://www.livestream.com/globalrevolution
2. Spread the word. Forward this. Post on facebook and twitter.
3. Send supplies to NY. Here's a list of needs, esp blankets:
http://nycga.cc/category/requests/
Send to: The UPS Store/Re: Occupy Wall Street/118A Fulton St. #205/New York, NY 10038.
4. Attend your city's Occupy. Occupy San Diego starts this Friday at 6pm. Let me know if you want to carpool, meet there, or make signs beforehand. It goes indefinitely so I'll be there off and on. Facebook event page here: https://www.facebook.com/#!/event.php?eid=104817912961200
News article:
http://www.sandiegoreader.com/weblogs/news-ticker/2011/oct/04/occupy-wall-street-protests-come-to-san-diego/
5. Donate supplies or food for Occupy San Diego. WE DESPERATELY NEED:
DRY ICE
STOVE TOPS
PROPANE 16, 9oz
SERVING UTENSILS
TABLES
BOWLS
6. If you have a car, offer to give rides, run errands, or pick up food/supplies for demonstrators in your city.
7. Donate to the cause. But they really need supplies and bodies, not money.
http://nycga.cc/donate/
Thanks for your interest and support!
1. Educate yourself. There's been a media blackout in the U.S. and only independent/foreign journalists have been covering this. Read articles in UK or Canadian publications and watch videos on youtube. The official declaration of the movement:
http://nycga.cc/2011/09/30/declaration-of-the-occupation-of-new-york-city/
disturbing report with footage--links aren't working so copy and paste URL into your browser:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v5zmzV5IxpQ
watch the protest live--copy and paste URL:
http://www.livestream.com/globalrevolution
2. Spread the word. Forward this. Post on facebook and twitter.
3. Send supplies to NY. Here's a list of needs, esp blankets:
http://nycga.cc/category/requests/
Send to: The UPS Store/Re: Occupy Wall Street/118A Fulton St. #205/New York, NY 10038.
4. Attend your city's Occupy. Occupy San Diego starts this Friday at 6pm. Let me know if you want to carpool, meet there, or make signs beforehand. It goes indefinitely so I'll be there off and on. Facebook event page here: https://www.facebook.com/#!/event.php?eid=104817912961200
News article:
http://www.sandiegoreader.com/weblogs/news-ticker/2011/oct/04/occupy-wall-street-protests-come-to-san-diego/
5. Donate supplies or food for Occupy San Diego. WE DESPERATELY NEED:
DRY ICE
STOVE TOPS
PROPANE 16, 9oz
SERVING UTENSILS
TABLES
BOWLS
6. If you have a car, offer to give rides, run errands, or pick up food/supplies for demonstrators in your city.
7. Donate to the cause. But they really need supplies and bodies, not money.
http://nycga.cc/donate/
Thanks for your interest and support!
Sunday, October 2, 2011
Burning Man in mainstream news
Amazing things are happening...Burning Man was named as one of TIME Magazine's Great Places of History: Civilization's 100 Most Important Sites.
And it's discussed from an intellectual point of view here:
Ted Talks on Transformational Festivals
Stay tuned for part 3 of my Burning Man series, Taking the Playa Home.
And it's discussed from an intellectual point of view here:
Ted Talks on Transformational Festivals
Stay tuned for part 3 of my Burning Man series, Taking the Playa Home.
Friday, September 30, 2011
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